No Child Left Behind my behind!
"In America, no child should be left behind. Every child should be educated to his or her full potential."
It was graduation day Saturday. I attended the graduation ceremony at Pembroke Academy, then hustled out to Hancock to attend the celebratory BBQ being held by the family of two graduates from ConVal High School. At both events there arose discussion over the effectiveness of the educational system.
At Pembroke Academy, the headmaster spoke about the difficulties of life from here on out for the Seniors. Although I found his speech to be quite a downer for a high school graduation (from what I could hear anyway over the lousy PA system), I did find one remark he made to be useful. He spoke of how far behind we still are in education compared to other countries. It's one of the reasons cited by President Bush when he sold us the No Child Left Behind legislation 6 years ago.
A gentleman who attended the ceremony with me remarked that although the other countries may be graduating students at higher rates, this doesn't necessarily mean these people are receiving a higher standard of education. He is an engineer who works with people around the world, and he commented that these "highly educated" people have often frustrated him in their inability to understand and process his designs.
At the BBQ there was much talk about the practice of schools now to rarely keep a failing student back. Schools move children on to the next level of education, no matter their abilities and successes. Being the parent of three children in school, I know this to be fact. I have had teachers tell me that my child is failing, but in the next breath tell me that I don't need to worry about that child having to repeat the grade. The child is required to attend summer school but will still move on to the next grade level even if he fails at this as well. Now I ask you, where's the motivation to do well? My child who is failing this year told me a few months ago that it didn't matter if he worked hard to pass, he knew he would not be staying behind. He quoted to me "No child left behind". Some of the people at the BBQ also thought the No Child Left Behind legislation meant children were required to move on despite their failing grades. This is a misinterpretation.
The legislation is aimed specifically at the quality of education. It is intended to hold schools and teachers accountable for our children learning what we deem important. What is deemed important is reading and math, that's it. Children in grades 3 through 8 are tested on a regular basis specifically to evaluate whether the schools are doing their job. They are tested only in reading and math skills. "Failing" schools are then rewarded with monies in order to implement improvements in their program. Parents also are given the freedom of choosing another school to transfer their children if the school they are attending is failing. There is nothing anywhere in the legislation which requires schools to just move children through the system regardless of whether these students are passing or failing. This is simply a practice that has come into existence because psychologists have decided it ruins a child's self esteem to "fail" and stay back.
The opening quote I used is taken directly from an article on the White House web site. In doing a little reading to make sure I understood the No Child Left Behind legislation, I found this passage and I see the profound irony in it. My failing child was recently on the honor roll. He is fully capable of passing all his classes with little effort. He chooses to put in no effort since he knows he will move on anyway. He scores well enough on the reading and math tests he has been required to take under the No Child Left Behind guidelines, so in the eyes of our government, the school is not "failing" in it's responsibilities.
Personally, I feel the schools have failed miserably in regards to my children and the widespread policy of not holding my children accountable for attaining their "full potential". I have a child in high school now, who has often battled her way through classes and not put in her best effort, but has been moved on anyway. Now that she is within sight of graduating, she is floundering helplessly because she still thinks that she can get by without making her best effort. She has become used to skating along, doing only what she wants and letting the rest fall into place on it's own. Although her school records are full of failing grades as well as A's and B's, she still could graduate on time and she is under the misguided impression that College is still an option. She is ill-prepared for life outside of school. My "failing" son is headed in the same direction.
My children may not be reaching their "full potential", but they are statistically showing our government that they are capable of reading and completing mathematical computations as well as proving that holding children less accountable is decreasing the drop out rate. Who cares if that is the extent of their education? It looks good on paper.
I agree whole heartedly.
How nice of you to judge me so quickly. I do impose restrictions, groundings and consequences, in fact my daughter will be 18 soon and still does not even have her license, a consequence to choices she has made. My son managed to be an honor student a mere 2 years ago, and I was his parent then too, teaching him my values and expectations. My point in this blog is that schools do hold a responsibility in educating my children in more then just reading and math. I did not teach my son "no child left behind" in the manner in which he took it. In fact, I educated him on the error in his thinking. The experience my children come away with from school is that every child will squeak by, no matter what kind of effort is put in. There are no lessons to be learned from "failure" in school. They spend an enormous amount of time in school and I want the schools to be held accountable for the lessons they are supposedly helping me teach my child.
"No Child Left Behind" is
"No Child Left Behind" is a catchy phrase, a feel good mantra a farce.
It's not about teaching children,about working with their potential or recognizing their talents...it's about dumbing down the system so that the numbers look good. The students aren't learning they are memorizing and playing the system.
We can't blame the teachers...if the numbers don't match their jobs are at risk!
Our children are victims...those who are gifted,will find their way . Those who are not...will fall through the cracks!
Government Schools
I'm a parent not in favor of 'no child left behind'. In fact, all of my kids went to and graduated from private schools. I felt that is was better to spend the money up front for their education during their formative years, than to spend it on college.
I am blessed to have three wonderful kids, who have excelled at everything they have tried. The school they attended gave them not only the confidence to go forward in life, but the necessary structure and basics to do so.
Private school was not easy. The kids averaged at LEAST 3-4 hours per night of school work, on top of volleyball, soccer and other extra curricular groups that kids get involved with. Was private school worth it?? ABSOLUTELY! The long hours of being at the table, working on spelling, or math problems were well worth it. Society now has three people who can converse well on almost any topic, anc do complex math problems, and know how to solve complex problems.
Like Neal Boortz, I'm not in favor of public schools, and would wholeheartedly work for a voucher system for schools. Not all schools are good, and not all teachers are able to teach in a manner in which the student will comprehend.
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Relevant consequences
As some of you know, I have to work with a certain population every day. Most of whom have not graduated from high school. Most of whom have had no regard for the education that they felt forced to attend. So, they dropped out. They moved on to the alcohol and drug world, then to minor crimes, then to not so minor crimes. Now, they are serving time with persons whom most parents would not like their children to be with. Most are in their early twenties.
Our school system is so concerned about self-esteem that somehow teaching a child that there is relevant consequences in this world does not get across. My oldest son went from grade to grade with "F's". Many of his friends did too. My wife and I did everything we could to turn him around. We failed in our effort. Before too long his "me too" friends were the ones he listened too. Soon, the whole bunch of them faced the criminal justice system. The judge doesn't seem too concerned about self-esteem issues, or his acceptance of diversity and cultural differences. The judge wasn't even concerned if my son accepted homosexuality as a lifestyle... or if he was one or not. He did not care if my son studied the bible or accepted the faith of Christianity or any other religion. The judge didn't care if he were Republican or Democrat. The judge was concerned about relevant consequences for diregarding and violating the law.
Many of my clients feel that they have been treated unfairly by the criminal justice system and that they are the victims... not the people who suffered because of their crimes. They are looking for their own version of what they call "justice."
As near as I can tell, the justice they are looking for is " I should be able to do whatever I want to do whenever I want to do it." Rules and regulations are something to be disobeyed.
According to the statistics, 1,250,000 teenagers in our country between the ages of 13-19 will be incarcerated this year.
Can schools do a better job? I think so. Can parents do a better job? Any parent will say yes to that. There is always room for improvement.
In short, when I was young I always had to be concerned about relevant consequences. My dad told me that I may not do the right thing because I loved him but "By God, you'll do the right thing because you respect me!" Were these harsh words by an uncaring father? I thought so at the time. Now, I am happy that he stood behind these words. It made me a better person and my self-esteem wasn't damaged at all. The judge cares about relevant consequences. That's why our prison system is go grossly overcrowded.
If I offended anyone by what I just said... Maybe one day your son or daughter will wind up where I work! I talk to a lot of parents who are at their wits end. It is a difficult situation for all of us.
Left Behind?
What does it really mean to be left behind? I had a son with Down Syndrome, and no matter what educational miracles could be focussed on him, he would always be "left behind", right? Our schools are charged with serving students with a huge range of abilities. Unfair comparison, maybe, but I think that we all "flounder helplessly" even as educated "adults". Our picture of what constitutes an education may need some adjustment.
WE'VE ALL BEEN LEFT BEHIND!
Political slogans are meaningless! Yes, public education has deteriorated. Yes, our children are more at risk than ever of being sucked into the vacuum of ignorance. Parents can't count on the schools/teachers to follow through. The schools/teachers can't count on the parents to follow through.
Looking good "on paper" has always been the "bottom line" Terri. Our kids "graduate" from kindergarten now. Education is a much more subtle thing than the ceremonial milestones and certifications with which we measure it.
Just saying ... this is a controversial topic, and that in itself is part of the problem.






I was saddened to read this blog. No where in this "opinion piece" does Ms. Oberg take responsibility for HER role in raising "failing" children. Where did/do her children learn about the importance of education, of doing one's best, or striving for excellence? Apparently not at home. Sad. Then to pass the blame on to the schools... yes, our schools are not the perfect paragons of education that we would wish (all without proper funding, but that is a discussion for another time), but where is Ms. Oberg's recitation of HER attempts to teach her children the value of an education and the consequences of failing to "put in the effort?" I, too, was a child that could receive "easy" A's and B's. When I received "C's" my parents stepped in and delivered consequences... no TV, no phone, no car, curfew, groundings, requesting extra work from my teachers, extra chores around the house (to which I should be come accustomed if I were not to attend college due to my lack of effort). Thankfully, I learned my "lesson" at home and in time to turn things around enough to attend college.