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Reflecting on Pride Month

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Each year, the month of June is dubbed Pride Month as a chance for GLBT individuals and their allies to show pride in themselves and their community. It is an opportunity for GLBT individuals to be themselves and reflect on the accomplishments of the community from the past year. It seems that to me personally, the meaning of Pride Month has changed a bit from year to year, but I enjoy it every time it comes around.
When I came out and attended my first Pride Month celebration down in Boston, it was a liberating experience. To see so many GLBT individuals and their friends and family without cares or concerns for just one day was so refreshing. Personally, it felt like a complete 180 turn from how things felt on a daily basis. For one day I didn't have to watch my steps and worry about what others may think.
Oddly enough, I went to my first Pride parade with three straight friends from college, each of whom ended up enjoying the sights and sounds of the event. It may sound strange, but a lot of folks who don't identify as GLBT attend each year's festivities, some to support friends or family members, and others just to enjoy the activities throughout the day.
Since my first experience at Pride, my perception has changed quite a bit. As I've become more comfortable in my own skin, I don't really feel as much of a change attending the festivities as I had that first time. I still enjoy watching the parade, listening to the music, and seeing what kinds of groups are tabling. But I don't feel like I go just for me anymore. I go to show my support for the community, in the hopes that people who are just now coming to terms with their sexuality may find the comfort I once felt in being surrounded by people who wouldn't judge me for who I was.

An Interesting Way to Stimulate the Economy

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The legalization of same-sex unions, whether called marriage or civil unions, has been called many things over the years. To many people its a sign of growing acceptance for same-sex couples and is an important step in the right direction towards equality for all. Others view it as a step in the wrong direction that could lead to the downfall of the "traditional family." But now there may be a new way to classify the legalization of same-sex unions: as an economic boon.

California Supreme Court Okays Marriage Equality, But Will It Stand?

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Breaking news out of California today. The state's Supreme Court just issued a ruling to a legal case dating back to 2004 regarding the rights of same-sex couples to marry. In its 4-3 ruling, the court found that the state's ban on same-sex marriage violates the "fundamental constitutional right to form a family relationship," according to the San Francisco Chronicle. The ruling will take effect in 30 days, and courthouses are anticipating a flood of marriage applications from same-sex couples.

Celebrities Show Support Their for This Year's Day of Silence

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This past Friday was GLSEN's 12th annual Day of Silence, where students across the country took a vow of silence for the day to bring attention to the bullying and harassment of GLBT individuals in schools across the country. Last year I detailed my thoughts about the Day of Silence in a blog post, and I'm amazed at the growth of the event since the last time it was held. While 5,000 schools participated last year, the count was up to 7,500 for 2008. It's a truly heartening development, and it's good to see even more students standing up for their peers than last year.

Coming Out Via Facebook?

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It's a bit of a new phenomenon, but with the rise of social networking sites like Facebook and MySpace, it seems that many GLBT people are now coming out via the Web. That's not to say that it's the method of choice for coming out to parents, siblings, or close friends, but when it comes to more distant friends or acquaintances, it serves as a way to break the news without causing too many ripples.
 
In my own experience, I've never tried to actively use Facebook as a way to come out to people.

Some Reflections on My First Trip Abroad

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A year ago today, I was walking the streets of Tokyo with two friends from high school. It was the first time I had really gone somewhere outside the country (I won't count Canada and a spring break trip to the Dominican Republic), and I found it to be a truly enriching experience. It was so interesting being immersed completely in another culture, and trying to view the world through a different lens.

Civil Unions and Red Tape in Connecticut

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There was an interesting article in The New York Times earlier this week about some of the challenges couples are currently facing under Connecticut's civil unions legislation. The article profiles several couples who entered into civil unions in the state, and talks about some of their experiences since tying the knot, for lack of a better term. While civil unions grant all of the same state rights and responsibilities of marriage on paper (they are not recognized by the federal government), in practice things get a little messy at times.

The Democratic Presidential Race and the GLBT Factor

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With the Republican presidential nomination locked up for Sen. John McCain, all eyes are now on the Democrats. Both Sen. Clinton and Sen. Obama scored some significant wins over the past week, but with the Pennsylvania nearly six weeks away, it gives us a little time to ponder some of the more minute details of the election thus far. There have certainly been some interesting trends in terms of what voting blocs have supported which candidate and in what states. One thing that I've been wondering about for a while, however, is how the GLBT vote has been swinging on the Democratic side?

Freeheld

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In 2006 we had Brokeback Mountain and Transamerica, two Oscar-nominated movies that brought issues facing GLBT individuals to the forefront. Brokeback Mountain told the tale of the forbidden love between two cowboys in the 1960's and Transamerica told the story of a transgender woman who goes on a cross country journey with the son she didn't know she had. This year, the Oscar season brought another powerful film about GLBT issues to the forefront, a short documentary called Freeheld.

Thoughts on Obama-mania and the Youth Vote

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I have to admit that I’ve been pretty much glued to the presidential primary race over the past few weeks, watching all of the results come in live and reading the latest snippets of information about the campaigns. There have been a lot of ups and downs for the candidates, and some game-changing withdrawals from the race recently. There have also been a great deal of surprises that have shaken up contests that once seemed fairly static.

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